Many of my clients have dated their partners for seven years or longer. I ask them why and they give me numerous reasons for not wanting to get married. If you find this to be your case, I believe that you must examine your conscience to find out why. If you don't want to get married because you no longer can date other people, then why are you with the person that you are with at all? I ask you this question because many people in our society keep other people in their lives as a back up plan. This is why much of our society is desperately hurting. Too many people lie to the partner that they are actively involved with. They tell them that they want to take their relationship slowly when really they have someone else on the side. They tell their partner that they would rather wait on the marriage idea because they want to make sure that they are the right one. Really, they want to tell them that I'm stalling our wedding plans because I'm not sure if someone else will be coming along that will be better for me. Yes, these excuses and many more lies are out there. I always tell my clients that if you are dating someone for over five months and they seem like they are not interested, they probably are not and they are just using you. As hard as it is to accept, move on. You don't have to settle for anyone who is just giving you a bunch of lines. Why stay with someone that only wants to see you once a week. They are probably with someone else the other six days.

Many people give the excuse that they can't see their boyfriend or girlfriend because they have to work.

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